We are living in 21st century, everything has changed in the span of time. But many people say that relations don't change, their meaning don't change, but relations have also changed. ahnnn coming directly to the topic from this, I am discussing the change that has came in the word "love".
its no more Heer-Ranjha, Romeo-Juliet love. Its only I love you....till I find someone better. Here is the story of a girl named Neha, whom I knew or I thought that I knew her very well.
Neha, a normal god fearing girl, from a small town, went to study in a big city. She was in relation with Aman a guy of the same town, with whom she said that she is deeply in love with andalways said all the dialogues of a 90's Hindi movie. The list of dialogue and I am mentioning very few of them......
I am very lucky to have you
I have no man in my life except you. You are the first and last man of my life. I will marry with you only and if any time you betrayed me it will be the last day of my life.
All other boys except you are my brothers.
The same girl who have seen a lot of Hindi movies, before going to a big city accepted a friend request of an unknown guy. And that guy started flirting with her,on fb. When Aman came to know about it, he became very sad, and asked Neha to block him As Neha was very much loyal she blocked him. That guy, let me name him Akash, from his another id started sending messages to Neha, to forgive him if he had did anything anything wrong and unblock her. Neha is very soft hearted, she promised Aman that she will unblock him now, and will leave talking with him slowly. Aman was very much impressed by her dialogues and agreed to it trusting her.
Neha had some tuition in that big city, where she has to go to study, and accidentally Akash belonged to that city. She asked Akash to help her to find the proper bus at the bus stand. But Akash is a big player. He came late on his bike and took Neha on bike to the place of tuition and spent whole day with her. It was very far, but who cares when you have a bike. Neha went to the place of tuition with Akash, Akash who was supposed to leave the place after dropping her, went with her to the tuition and spent the whole day with her.. Aman sitting at his home was amazed, What Akash is doing, but Neha was enjoying all this.
Neha came back to her home and told Aman that Akash hugged her when he met her. Neha had a problem when Aman talked to any other girl, even his best friend from his childhood. Aman unlike Neha left talking with his best friends without doing any fake promise. Aman started crying.Watching the tears of Aman, Neha delivered another promise, that she will never meet Akash in her life. Not only promise but also sweared of Aman that no other guy will hug her except Aman.
The same night Akash proposed Neha, Neha told him that she is in relation with Aman, which she Hadn't told by now because she was enjoying his flirting till now. With This she also told Aman That now as he can be a danger to our relation I will leave talking with him soon. But Aman knew that all this is lie, He told Neha that you have told the same thing to me many times, Hearing this Neha once again sweared of Aman that she will leave Akash soon. But it was said that promises are meant to be broken, Aman never knew That Neha had no problem in false swearing even.
Neha now sarted calling Akash regularly. Then came the exams of Neha in the big same city. Neha went there and every time when Aman called her, her phone was on waiting with Akash, she said that Akash has became her good friend now. She forgot all the swears and was enjoying. Yes why not when you see a Guy will come anytime with a bike will drop you where you want, and flirt with you who don't want to be a good friend.
It was last exam of neha. After exam Neha callled Aman, that her exam went very good and she is leaving for home soon with her friends. Aman asked her to call when she catches the bus. Three hours went by no call came. Aman called Neha, She was crying and said that she found afterwards that her answers are wrong, and at that time Akash called her, hearing of this he came and you will not like but I came on bike with him and are sitting in restaurant and I will leave soon. Aman instead of saying anything cut the call. Later in evening Neha told him that she hugged Akash, Aman didn't believed it, Then Neha said that Akash again hugged her, and she don't want that aman should think bad of him so she lied. Aman was loss of words that his swear, promises meant nothing to the girl in front of her new boy friend, who was just friend in front of Aman.
Neha once again sweared the same thing that this will not happen in future. She now went to the big city. Again her double faced came up. Loyalty in front of Aman and talking whole day with New friend or boy friend. Now they meet daily. Akash once again hugged Neha, and Neha was again playing the same game. The very next day Akash posted a pic on fb for Neha that its impossible to be friends with someone whom you are in love with.
Aman was very angry this time, he called neha and asked for his number, so that he should end this friendship, but neha stopped him saying if you trust me don't do this and sweared him of herself to be quite. Aman after some days to this incident went to meet neha. They were meeting after a year. They met each other at 10 am. and as usual Neha did something the same which she was doing from a long time. She had told Akash ealier not to call her as Aman is coming, and Akash started sending her messages. Aman ignored some messages. they went for a movie It was 3.00 PM and akash was continously sending her messages from 11.00 am of missing her a lot and neha had no shame that she should stop her, but was enjoying the scene. And why should she stop him, Aman use to come to meet her after a long time, if ever she left Akash, who would come daily give a ride on bike and will talk when Aman sleeps in the night. Aman was crying sitting on the side of Neha, but Neha was just enjoying the messages sent by new friend.
Akash flirted many times with Neha but Neha instead of stopping her was appreciating him.
Aman had seen first girl in life, who being in a serious relation, enjoys any other guy flirting with her and trying to break their relation but she had sweared of Aman that only he is in her life. After that what happened showed the 21 st century love. Neha started swearing falsely of Aman many times daily when Aman came to know something is wrong. Not only Naha and Akash use to talk to each other betraying Aman but used to post statuses for each other--- Dil Garden Garden ho gea.
Akash came to meet Neha on a wednesday in his new car, and gave her a ride and After a week Neha officially announced that she is in love with Akash.And when the relation ended, Neha started playing triple games now, Aman messaged her that why she had done all this to him and her new boyfriend or the only boyfriend called Aman from Neha's cell to abuse him. The same cell that Neha used to hide from Aman when Her another bf sends her messages that Jaan ban gye ho.
This is the 21st century love, a love a girl has for a boy and for her brother. people thinks of thousand times before swearing falsely of their enemies even and the girl has no shame in swearing falsely of the person who stood by her in her bad days, who trusted her blindly to the extent nobody can trust. But what to expect more from a girl who started playing games the very first time she met a new guy. Aman cant even talk to his best friends even boys because Neha had a problem and Neha used to go movie with that guy and use to say him in the hall why are you ignoring me, she use to talk with him whole day, even late nights. Akash told Aman once, that the day he proposed Neha and she told him about Aman, he was going away from her life, But Neha who sweared of Aman that she will leave talking with Akash, requested Akash not to go far and said we will be best friend and be with me always.
What a modern love Neha had for Aman, enjoying playing with two guys at the same time. The relation which is always between two was always kept between three. One goes to sleep, call another daily in the night let me correct late night.